Ban illaaf

[Ben.]

I've been waiting for you to blow up on this dude Ben.

Words won't do anything against him. His head is so far up his friend's ass that it's almost not even worth getting into it. Everyone has said their piece, and a majority of it is the same thing. Yea, he sucks. Everyone likes Lina, and rightfully so..she's not wronged anyone here. No one here has openly tried to pursue something with her. I make my lewd comments toward her, but she snipes right back.. Never have I thought of acting on anything I've ever said.

 

Dude's got way too much of a bias towards his ass buddy. You'd think it happened to him (and it wouldn't surprise me if in fact he is "eric").

[SpeedDemon]

Please do...............................

 

Like I give a flying fvck, seriously. If the majority of you (Lina included) had real friends that you would literately give your life for you would understand why I am doing this. Call me a homo and think I am an a$hole or what ever. I don't care. When your closest friend in the world calls you and almost runs his truck off the road because he is that distraught and the only thing you can do is try to console him from thousands of miles away, you do what it takes. Even if it is going to tick off a bunch of random strangers. If in the end the one person the whole thing is meant for realizes the error of her ways before it is too late.

 

If you people really were Lina's friends then maybe you would see the underlying problem here. You defend her because you are her. Most of you too afraid to live your lives in the real world, so instead you come here and rant an rave about the sh!tty lives you have. She has a good job, makes a decent living and has a man who is completely in love with her. Her problem is loneliness and if she weren't acting so stupid. That problem is going to be solved.

 

If you really are her "friends" as you think you are then you should do something about this. You should talk to her. I posted this stuff in public for a reason. I aired dirty laundry because public humiliation is a huge tool in making people feel guilty and realizing the stupid mistakes they are making. Humiliation is a huge motivating factor in manipulating a person because everyone wants to feel like part of a group. She is part of this group and her embarrassment here is very important, if for no other reason then to benefit the next guy.

 

I don't apologize to any of you or Lina for the posts. I don't care what you people, the moderators of the forum or Lina thinks of me. I am so far away from any of you both in mind and physical presents that I don't care. I only care about one person that is involved here. My friend.

 

I meant it weeks ago when I said I would help people here find jobs. No one even bothered to ask me. You all just continued to whine about your poor little lives. I really felt bad for you people at first. Now I realize that none of you want it. You love to wallow in your self pity like a pig rolling in sh!t (Lina included). That is what this place really is for a lot of you.

 

This doesn't go for everyone. X, you have been a pretty good guy, Savingstrangers as well and I am sure there are a hundred plus more that are good people. This is directed to the weeds of the group. The bad apples. Hate me today and hate me tomorrow, but the reason you hate me so much is because you always hate the people who tell you the honest to god truth because no one can stand hear it.

 

Quite frankly, I feel dirty for even being here. Amongst you people.

 

if you feel so dirty being here they leave. you sit here bitching about people complaining about their lives, you're doing the same thing. all your doing is bitchiing about how lina wont take your friend "Eric" back. i really do believe you are in fact eric. you come off with the same high and mighty attitude that he did when he was here. as far as we are concerned with you...were not. you are just a screen name that is supposedly from panama. if you are in fact referencing to me as a "bad apple" then your naive. im a 20yr old college student that works 30 hours a week and still finds time to help at home and cook. never done a drug in my life, always a outstanding athlete...doesnt really sound like a bad apple to me.

 

Pretty sure, I didn't direct my comments specifically at you. In fact I hardly know you, so I would judge you at all. My comments were directed at a few certain people who are constantly on this forum complaining about their jobs or lack of jobs and lack of money.

 

As far as serving my country, I will not go into details with you, but I served, maybe not in the military, but in a government agency, so I understand what you are saying. I have been all around the world more then once. The context of my post was such that I would lay my life on the line for Eric because we are such good friends and I know he would do the same for me because we have. Please don't pull my words out of context for your own specific issues.

 

The fact that you could take my more general discussion about people here and think for a second that was applied directly to you says in your mind that what I said was true about you as well. So thank you for making my point. Just as others here have done many many times.

 

I am sorry about your student issues. I do wish you the best of luck getting them resolved and furthering your education. I truly mean it when I say that I want people in life to succeed. When I offered, I was willing to use my considerable network of friends/business associates to get people here jobs. I offered people a leg up and they ignored me.

 

This thing with Lina is something I have to do, whether you like this or not. You weren't on the phone with Eric last night, listening to him while he puked and cried. I have never seen him like this ever. There is a lot of background that you don't know. Lina does and all of this is for her, not you...

 

I live in Punta Marina Panama you are welcome to come and try to do anything you would like.

 

i really wouldnt make that offer to cmgogo. being arrogant like that will get you killed. and why would anyone take you up on a job offer? your nothing more than a stranger hiding behind his computer screen.we still have yet to hear your actual name(that i have asked you for three times). which makes me further believe you are eric himself. i wont lie, your friend sounds like a cry baby bitch. get over it, so what one girl does not want him. there are a sh1t ton moreout there. and some guys too for you.

BTW, all I want is for my friend and Lina to be happy, but this BS Lina is pulling is killing them both. If any of you had some sense you would see that.

 

If anything that is what I want her to realize. Talking to her worked before. If you guys really do care and want her to be happy, you should talk to her.

 

you dont know whats best for another person. so stop pretending you do.

Good God what a bunch of goddamn queens we have on here.

 

damn winy spoiled princesses lol

Words won't do anything against him. His head is so far up his friend's ass that it's almost not even worth getting into it. Everyone has said their piece, and a majority of it is the same thing. Yea, he sucks. Everyone likes Lina, and rightfully so..she's not wronged anyone here. No one here has openly tried to pursue something with her. I make my lewd comments toward her, but she snipes right back.. Never have I thought of acting on anything I've ever said.

 

Dude's got way too much of a bias towards his ass buddy. You'd think it happened to him (and it wouldn't surprise me if in fact he is "eric").

 

ive been getting at that the whole time. because we still have yet to hear a real name from him. or a specific place that he lives. or what he does.....just a screen name to me,

 

 

 

Illaaf: i hope you enjoy your vacation. airjordan223 will have none of this.

[SpeedDemon]

so this is the comment he left on my page:

 

Name is JJ fvck nut. Eric wouldn't do this. If you had actual friends instead of virtual ones, you would understand why I am doing what I am doing.

Go back to whining about your poor unfortunate life to the rest of the fvcking losers and retards on this stupid a$$ forum. No one here especially you are worth a fvcking piece of sh!t to me.

 

Here is my response you jackass. :

 

so your name is JJ? i have plenty of friends outside of this forum. more than you could possibly imagine. and judging my your comment on my page i appeared to hit a nerve. good. the only piece of shi1t on this forum is you. your nothing more than a coward hiding behind a computer screen. And knowing that i hit that nerve made my life that much better. jesus your a loser.....

[Stevotron5000]

Most of you too afraid to live your lives in the real world, so instead you come here and rant an rave about the sh!tty lives you have. She has a good job, makes a decent living and has a man who is completely in love with her. Her problem is loneliness and if she weren't acting so stupid. That problem is going to be solved.

 

1. I aired dirty laundry because public humiliation is a huge tool in making people feel guilty and realizing the stupid mistakes they are making. Humiliation is a huge motivating factor in manipulating a person because everyone wants to feel like part of a group. She is part of this group and her embarrassment here is very important, if for no other reason then to benefit the next guy.

 

2. I am so far away from any of you both in mind and physical presents that I don't care. I only care about one person that is involved here. My friend.

 

3. I meant it weeks ago when I said I would help people here find jobs. No one even bothered to ask me. You all just continued to whine about your poor little lives. I really felt bad for you people at first. Now I realize that none of you want it. You love to wallow in your self pity like a pig rolling in sh!t (Lina included). That is what this place really is for a lot of you.

 

4. Hate me today and hate me tomorrow, but the reason you hate me so much is because you always hate the people who tell you the honest to god truth because no one can stand hear it.

 

5. Quite frankly, I feel dirty for even being here. Amongst you people.

 

I thought I'd just cut your post down and leave the douchiest most convoluted portions.

 

1. No, it just makes you a huge tool (that's what she said.)

 

2. Your mind is definitely far away from us, I'll give you that. If the only person you care about is your friend why in the hell would any of us care of about you? You should know that your just wasting your time at that point dealing with us whiny forum peasants.

 

3. Why would anyone take you seriously about helping when all you do is rag on everyone for pretty much no reason. You're bored man, go find another hobby. You say that this place is where people come to wallow in self pity. I was always under the impression that this was a place to kill some time, learn something new about cars, shoot the breeze, and connect with people who have similar interests as you. I've met quite a few people in the forums that I wouldn't mind having a beer with in real life (Gogo included) and I'm sure many many other people here feel the same way. It's very difficult to see things clearly on that high horse you're on.

 

4. Hate's a strong word and awfully assuming of you. I don't know you, you mean absolutely nothing to me so your "truth" isn't my truth. What I do know is that the forum for the most part is laid back and you're just here to stir the pot.

 

5. lol, sorry that just made me laugh. I picture it being said in a very dramatic way.

 

As far as gogo misinterpreting your comments, no, just no. This is a public forum and you use the word "you" to address all of "us" so pretty much any response you get is justified, imo.

 

 

Honestly man, I can't imagine too many people here take you seriously. I surely don't. Just a heads up, don't expect anything you type to bear any weight within this forum and don't get too pissy once you really realize that what you're doing is completely pointless.

[airjordan223]

 

I'll let you guys play a little bit longer.

[cmgogo]

Yeah, I dont think he understands who or what I really am.

 

What unit are you in, in punta marina?

(im assuming you live in punta paitilla)

yeah, as far as what I did in the military for 4 years, counter narcotics, south and central america, you picked the wrong a$shole to piss off and be south of the border butthead.

 

So if you do have any balls, pm me your full address and name, and ill see to it that we have a face to face meeting, real soon.

[Rick B.]

im tired of all of this whiny baby high school drama bullcrap.

 

who wants to be in a forced relationship. youre saying that the best for both of them is to be together. well, lina doesnt want to be with him so forcing her into a relationship she doesnt want is not good for her or him. if you were successful in forcing her back into a relationship, how would your friend feel knowing that she is with him because she was forced into it, instead of making the decision on her own? personally, i wouldnt want someone to be with me if they didnt want to, that just causes nothing but problems. the relationship is over, be a good friend and help your buddy cope instead of coming on the forum acting all high and mighty and disrespecting its members. thats just immature, and because of that immaturity, i highly doubt you served your country in a government agency because most agencies require a college degree, and i have never met a college graduate with that level of immaturity, unless of course you were a custodian or something, serving your country one mopped floor at a time.

 

personally, i wont stand for anyone disrespecting any friends of mine. ive had the pleasure of hanging out with lina on numerous occasions and she is a good person. she is not the type of person to be tied down though, she is a free spirit and enjoys doing things her own ways. in fact, we should all take a page out of her book because she has succeeded so much in life and still lives it to the fullest. i can only hope that one day i could have that kind of success.

 

as for you and your friend, you both seem to be suffering from a typical human psychological issue, simply, you think youre special. you feel that you have a special purpose on this earth and that your existence means something. but lets take a closer look, how significant are you and your friend? how many lives have you saved, touched, or changed in a positive note? ive never heard of you or your friend before you joined up and started posting as have none of the other members here. i havent seen your name in history books or current events articles. it seems to me that outside your small circle of friends, family, and acquaintances, you mean nothing to the world. you and your friend are just another face in the crowd with their own share of problems. Now what separates a man from an immature idiot is how they move on from their problems, to improve their lives. that seems like something you are unable to do because you are simply dwelling on a past, dead issue instead of moving forward in a life of self improvement.

 

there is no evil here to triumph over so stop trying to sound like a just, valiant hero because you look like a tard. life is always throwing changes at us, both good and bad. i suggest you man up and deal with them instead of complaining.

 

-Rick

 

Oh, and if you have any personal issues with me.

I live on Long Island, NY. feel free to come up here anytime, or ill meet you half way so we can discuss said issues face to face like men. i warn you though, if you so much as lay a finger on me in any other form than a handshake especially if you mean harm. i will bury you and i have the record to prove it.

 

so lets all act like grown adults and play nice without disrespecting each other.

 

oh, and i served my country as well. US army, Explosives Ordnance Disposal Specialist.

I also serve my communities by being a part of a volunteer ambulance company and by holding holiday dinners and fund raising events for the less fortunate people that live here and donate to charities.

[mpearce1974]

Yeah, I dont think he understands who or what I really am.

 

 

 

A as$hole?

[Rick B.]

A as$hole?

 

+1

[Ben.]

i lol @ him having called himself a bad person.. he has absolutely no idea.

[illaaf]

Let's see what information do you want?

 

My name is John Joesph Rodriguez. Up until recently, I was a resident of RI. I moved to Panama (Balboa Avenue in Panama City) with another friend (Fabio) to help him run his family's business. What other information would you like about me?

 

The first posting was my idea and was done in a cold a calculated fashion to elicit a certain response from Lina. I was in on it and helped write it, so if it came off as high and mighty, then thank you, that is exactly what I was going for..... The stuff I have told you all was suppose to be between friends. I am sharing this information for one person and one person alone. Knowing full well she will read this stuff and hopefully feel some pain from it. I highly doubt that however, because it seems as though she is nothing more then a sociopath.

 

Yes, this does make me a huge DB and probably a sociopath as well and you can judge me as much as you want. Don't judge someone you don't know and isn't here to defend himself from me or any of you. If you would like to email me him, PM me and I will give you his personal email, so that you can talk to him for yourself and judge him then. He will not come back to this forum because of a promise made to Lina after the first posting. He is a man of his word. Actually, him know about this place is my fault anyway, so you have me to thank for this entire situation.

 

I have obviously struck a nerve with most of you. All of which think they have a real shot with Lina, when in reality no one does. She is just going to hurt people and hurt people and hurt people some more, until she ends up a crazy cat lady. At least she won't be alone, she has a friend that is also a sociopath back in Cali. They can be crazy cat ladies together.

 

I have the benefit of more inside knowledge of the situation then any of you, since I have seen and heard from day one what has been going on and read the majority of the emails between the two involved parties. So I am playing a hand of strength, but if I were to post these messages, your high opinion of Lina would change dramatically.

 

My problem with Lina starts and ends at three words, "I love you". Those words are sacred. These are words you say only when you mean them. Lina threw them around a lot. If you look at the email I posted, she said them again. I am sorry but that doesn't make sense to me that you use those strong a words and then, poof, we can't be together. It is childish and stupid.

 

For those of you who say that I have my head to far up my friends a$$, you are probably right, but you all have your head too far up Lina's as well.

 

Continue on your bashing, I don't really care, none of this is meant for you. It is meant for Lina. The rest of you can go back to screwing your goats.

[illaaf]

^ you're damn right I do.

[Rick B.]

I'm about to stab a fool

[illaaf]

im tired of all of this whiny baby high school drama bullcrap.

 

who wants to be in a forced relationship. youre saying that the best for both of them is to be together. well, lina doesnt want to be with him so forcing her into a relationship she doesnt want is not good for her or him. if you were successful in forcing her back into a relationship, how would your friend feel knowing that she is with him because she was forced into it, instead of making the decision on her own? personally, i wouldnt want someone to be with me if they didnt want to, that just causes nothing but problems. the relationship is over, be a good friend and help your buddy cope instead of coming on the forum acting all high and mighty and disrespecting its members. thats just immature, and because of that immaturity, i highly doubt you served your country in a government agency because most agencies require a college degree, and i have never met a college graduate with that level of immaturity, unless of course you were a custodian or something, serving your country one mopped floor at a time.

 

personally, i wont stand for anyone disrespecting any friends of mine. ive had the pleasure of hanging out with lina on numerous occasions and she is a good person. she is not the type of person to be tied down though, she is a free spirit and enjoys doing things her own ways. in fact, we should all take a page out of her book because she has succeeded so much in life and still lives it to the fullest. i can only hope that one day i could have that kind of success.

 

as for you and your friend, you both seem to be suffering from a typical human psychological issue, simply, you think youre special. you feel that you have a special purpose on this earth and that your existence means something. but lets take a closer look, how significant are you and your friend? how many lives have you saved, touched, or changed in a positive note? ive never heard of you or your friend before you joined up and started posting as have none of the other members here. i havent seen your name in history books or current events articles. it seems to me that outside your small circle of friends, family, and acquaintances, you mean nothing to the world. you and your friend are just another face in the crowd with their own share of problems. Now what separates a man from an immature idiot is how they move on from their problems, to improve their lives. that seems like something you are unable to do because you are simply dwelling on a past, dead issue instead of moving forward in a life of self improvement.

 

there is no evil here to triumph over so stop trying to sound like a just, valiant hero because you look like a tard. life is always throwing changes at us, both good and bad. i suggest you man up and deal with them instead of complaining.

 

-Rick

 

Oh, and if you have any personal issues with me.

I live on Long Island, NY. feel free to come up here anytime, or ill meet you half way so we can discuss said issues face to face like men. i warn you though, if you so much as lay a finger on me in any other form than a handshake especially if you mean harm. i will bury you and i have the record to prove it.

 

so lets all act like grown adults and play nice without disrespecting each other.

 

oh, and i served my country as well. US army, Explosives Ordnance Disposal Specialist.

I also serve my communities by being a part of a volunteer ambulance company and by holding holiday dinners and fund raising events for the less fortunate people that live here and donate to charities.

 

 

If you want to know my background, PM me again. You didn't ask that the first time.

 

If you want to meet me you are welcome to come to Panama and see me and the next time I am in the states, I will look you up. I will buy you a drink and we can talk.

 

The fact that you would bring up fighting means a lot about your mindset..........

[Rick B.]

If you want to know my background, PM me again. You didn't ask that the first time.

 

If you want to meet me you are welcome to come to Panama and see me and the next time I am in the states, I will look you up. I will buy you a drink and we can talk.

 

The fact that you would bring up fighting means a lot about your mindset..........

 

I'd be more than happy to have a civil discussion with you over a beer.

 

The fact that I'm willing to stand up for a friend when someone is knowingly trying to cause them harm and distress says a lot about my character and yours as well.

 

Two wrongs don't make a right my friend.

 

I never said I wished to fight, with that being said though, judging by your lack of respect for others I find it hard to trust you if we were to meet in person. So take that as a warning, I'm more than willing and capable of settling this physically if that's how you wish to resolve the issue or if you insist on slandering a close and dear friend of mine.

 

This issue should never have been made public nor should you have gotten involved since a relationship between two people is none of your business, its between the two involved parties.

 

I invite your friend to come back, I'd honestly like to see how he would react to his friend harassing and trying to hurt the very woman he loves. Personally, if you were my friend and doing that, I'd kick your ass for disrespecting her, any self respecting man would stand up for a woman against a bully.

[mpearce1974]

I'd be more than happy to have a civil discussion with you over a beer.

 

The fact that I'm willing to stand up for a friend when someone is knowingly trying to cause them harm and distress says a lot about my character and yours as well.

 

Two wrongs don't make a right my friend.

 

I never said I wished to fight, with that being said though, judging by your lack of respect for others I find it hard to trust you if we were to meet in person. So take that as a warning, I'm more than willing and capable of settling this physically if that's how you wish to resolve the issue or if you insist on slandering a close and dear friend of mine.

 

This issue should never have been made public nor should you have gotten involved since a relationship between two people is none of your business, its between the two involved parties.

 

I invite your friend to come back, I'd honestly like to see how he would react to his friend harassing and trying to hurt the very woman he loves. Personally, if you were my friend and doing that, I'd kick your ass for disrespecting her, any self respecting man would stand up for a woman against a bully.

 

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[airjordan223]

Ok enough fun for now.

 

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