Depinning green connectors 2004 Civic Lx

[Jake1006]

I for the life of me CANNOT get these terminal pins to pop out on my 2004 honda civic lx. It seems like they have only used these green and blue connectors for a few diffrent years because most honda adapters i see are bigger and have bigger holes The hole to stick the tool in is way smaller then any other connector i see in videos for honda terminal connector depinning and also the molex pin looks alot diffrent as well. Long story short ive been at it non stop for 4 days now and i only got 2 pins out and were just from pure luck but all the videos that show how to unlock the pin to remove dont seem to unlock these pins. Do these connectors need the double pointed terminal release tool to unlock and remove? Someone please help me figure out how to remove these pins