wannaBstuntin Posted September 19, 2008 Share Posted September 19, 2008 Are you both stressed out right now? A lot of times when there are problems in a relationship (in my experience) its due to factors outside of the relationship, such as work/school etc. So figure out what exactly is causing the problem and try to work on it together. Otherwise, find a new relationship, or go single for a while. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lceah Posted September 19, 2008 Share Posted September 19, 2008 ^good advice... try to focus on what's bugging you guys... tha'ts what I do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CRG7 Posted September 19, 2008 Share Posted September 19, 2008 Otherwise, find a new relationship, or go single for a while. If it's going to be over (and it needs to be decided upon one way or the other, no childish games), then stay single. Take time for yourself, it's well worth it I'll be coming up on a year of the single life soon enough Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lceah Posted September 19, 2008 Share Posted September 19, 2008 single life is great...but so is being in a good relationship... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
airjordan223 Posted September 19, 2008 Share Posted September 19, 2008 put it in her butt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben. Posted September 19, 2008 Author Share Posted September 19, 2008 put it in her butt She uh.. Nevermind. Put it like this.. That's not a BAD thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben. Posted September 20, 2008 Author Share Posted September 20, 2008 What a fracked up day I'm having. She texted me as I was leaving my first call this morning..apparently she knew for me to use my phone I'd have to clear the text.. SO. After about 60 incoming and outgoing texts.. we've agreed to counseling.. She's agreed to be more open about her problems. She was actually waiting for me when I got home. I'm just ever so leary of what might happen now. I'm happy. It'll take that first session of counseling before I'm completely content. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jerrodh Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 Well hopefully things go your way Ben, but you can't be doing this back and forth crap, least make that apparent to her that it hurts you. I hated it when past girlfriends I had would try to leave and come back, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben. Posted September 20, 2008 Author Share Posted September 20, 2008 Oh she knows.. She knows veeery well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jerrodh Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 Well thats good, and progress I might add. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CRG7 Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 I'd just get out now. You're not married. Your 20 years old. Your going to go to couples counseling? She knows "very well" that you'll leave if it doesn't work, but you've told us at least 2-3 times that you're done "for good", so it doesn't seem as though you have any intention of actually leaving. Hope all works out how you want it to, though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben. Posted September 20, 2008 Author Share Posted September 20, 2008 My one character flaw. I let people who do get close to me walk all over me. It's quite a shame really. Not denying it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lceah Posted September 20, 2008 Share Posted September 20, 2008 ^That's not a character flaw. That's you being very nice. She is the one who shouldn't walk all over you! I hope counseling works! huuuggsss Ashley, I see your point. But, they really love eachother to have been together for this long, imo. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben. Posted September 20, 2008 Author Share Posted September 20, 2008 Today was good.. she cracked the whip while I brushed up on the landscaping outside.. LOL. Back to the normal us. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
airjordan223 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 did you put it in her butt Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben. Posted September 21, 2008 Author Share Posted September 21, 2008 i'm working on it. she's being icy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lceah Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Ben, seems like slowly you guys are getting back to normal It's a time...after a while, you guys will see if you are gonna stay together stronger, or not. I hope things work out really well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben. Posted September 21, 2008 Author Share Posted September 21, 2008 Oh she's being purety rosey. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lceah Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 maybe a vacation would be good?! I know your job is busy though... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
James Matteu Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 My one character flaw. I let people who do get close to me walk all over me. It's quite a shame really. Not denying it. You shouldn't consider low self-esteem a character quality. Rather, it should be called what it is, a symptom of a deeper issue; perhaps mild depression. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben. Posted September 22, 2008 Author Share Posted September 22, 2008 You shouldn't consider low self-esteem a character quality. Rather, it should be called what it is, a symptom of a deeper issue; perhaps mild depression. I was diagnosed with Bi-Polar disorder when I was younger. I'm an entirely different person off medicaid. LOL. This is a winning relationship fools! PTSD in the woman and BPD in the guy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wannaBstuntin Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 This is a winning relationship fools! PTSD in the woman and BPD in the guy! What could possibly go wrong? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben. Posted September 22, 2008 Author Share Posted September 22, 2008 I'm afraid of how any possible offspring may end up. LOL. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lceah Posted September 23, 2008 Share Posted September 23, 2008 you guys have been together for 5 years! You two can make it work look at the positive side...bi-polar can be really good between the sheets hehehe I have mild ADHD and a very positive happy personality, so I'm hyper often and get wild...this really helps because I do spontaneous things that are unpredictably fun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ben. Posted September 23, 2008 Author Share Posted September 23, 2008 Dumbass doctors condemned me with that during my gradeschool years. I've taken Ritalin, Adderall.. all sorts of stuff for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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