Kegger Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 AAAARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHH HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!! I want to be single again. /Rant. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rick B. Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 i have those moments at least once a day, and mostly when the hf girls are on. =) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CRG7 Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 uhhhh, care to share? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kegger Posted May 13, 2007 Author Share Posted May 13, 2007 I'm just super pissed off at my gf because she just refuses to listen to me. And then she tells me that communication is the most important part of a relationship. Its total bullcrap, and I can't frackin stand it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CRG7 Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 She doesn't need to listen to you, because whatever it is: You're wrong j/p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kegger Posted May 13, 2007 Author Share Posted May 13, 2007 Thats exactly it. Even if I know I'm right. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TS John Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 "Hey hey hey.... Let's just calm down.... and have some more of this...." ::holds up bag of weed:: --Emory from ATHF Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kegger Posted May 13, 2007 Author Share Posted May 13, 2007 That is a great idea. Pass it to me and don't expect any back. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TS John Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 Lemme go off topic here for a second: How cheap do you think weed and rum is in the French caribbean? Cuz I'll be there for a month in August and.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
90IntegraC1 Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 f*ck relationships. i'm happier now that i'm single. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TS John Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 Pssshhh... I'm not. I've been single for more than a year now and I'm done with it. Ready to have someone again for sure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CRG7 Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 Thats exactly it. Even if I know I'm right. Any more info? Lemme go off topic here for a second: How cheap do you think weed and rum is in the French caribbean? Cuz I'll be there for a month in August and.... Where are you off to? Hopefully not Martinique... F' weed, what a waste. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kegger Posted May 13, 2007 Author Share Posted May 13, 2007 Cuz she shuts me down when I try to talk sense into her. About anything, she's so hard headed that she just doesn't think anything I say matters. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TS John Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 Actually, Guadeloupe, the overseas department of France. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CRG7 Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 Cuz she shuts me down when I try to talk sense into her. About anything, she's so hard headed that she just doesn't think anything I say matters. Maybe you just need a different approach. Actually, Guadeloupe, the overseas department of France. Never been, hopefully the natives are pleasant Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mycarsux Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 go take your morphine you raging addict Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TS John Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 I hear it's gorgeous and nobody speaks english. Also that people are really nice and it hasn't had much updating for 100 years, which is actually sort of why I'm going -- service trip with school. Pretty excited to work with them and speak French for a month. Kegan, I hope you just can approach this calmly the next time you talk to her. Hopefully that's tonight, since you shouldn't go to bed angry with one another. If you have to do, then remember that the most important thing is to make things peaceful between you two as soon as you can, not to let her know you're right about some little thing. Chances are she'll know anyway, but the fact that you want it behind you and all should make a bigger difference than proving her wrong. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kegger Posted May 13, 2007 Author Share Posted May 13, 2007 Like how? No, not touching it again in my life. And its not that I'm trying to prove her wrong or anything, it's the fact that I feel like I'm second to everything in her life. I mean even when I went up there on leave she kept forgetting that I was hurt, even when I had my sling on, but she would always hit me in that shoulder or grab it or some sh!t. It just sucks that it has to be like that but it seems like I can't get anywhere with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CRG7 Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 Like how? No, not touching it again in my life. And its not that I'm trying to prove her wrong or anything, it's the fact that I feel like I'm second to everything in her life. I mean even when I went up there on leave she kept forgetting that I was hurt, even when I had my sling on, but she would always hit me in that shoulder or grab it or some sh!t. It just sucks that it has to be like that but it seems like I can't get anywhere with her. How old are the two of you? How long have you been together? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kegger Posted May 13, 2007 Author Share Posted May 13, 2007 I'm 20 going on 30 and shes 20 going on 12. We've been together for bout a year and a half. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lceah Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 give an example of what it is you try to tell her and she doesn't listen? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kegger Posted May 13, 2007 Author Share Posted May 13, 2007 Like don't buy 90 bucks worth of food for 10 people. And then she gets mad cuz it goes to waste and I say told you so and she flips the f*ck out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TS John Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 and I say told you so Well there's yer problem... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kegger Posted May 13, 2007 Author Share Posted May 13, 2007 You watch too much discovery channel. And I wasn't trying to prove her wrong, just save her some money but she doesn't care. Shes got a $1000 mortgage payment along with utilities and she make less than $1500. But she spends her money like she's made of it. Thats the real thing that gets me. Just no respect for what can happen when you're broke. I am sooooo glad I grew up poor. That way I actually think about the money I spend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lceah Posted May 13, 2007 Share Posted May 13, 2007 maybe she feels like you are trying to control her or not letting her do her own thing...or be independent! how about if you try asking her two or three questions about what she is doing and tell her that you care for her and that's why you are talking to her about it! Say you are concerned about her because if she spends money like that then she might not get to...she might realize that hey, there is a point here! talking about the big picture might help...she might be so caught up in making every month that she doesn't think much about future! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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